The Oyster
Gorgeous pearls can sometimes be found inside oysters. The same goes, figuratively speaking, for the eponymous oyster sexual position, in which the woman happily surrenders to the man’s thrusts and adds her bit to achieve greater intimacy.
© Alejandro Rodriguez
With its combination of intense pleasure, love and tenderness, the oyster position is ideal for those who want to spice up and experiment with their sex lives.
In the middle of the missionary position, the woman pushes her lover up into a kneeling position, thereby communicating her willingness to shake things up a bit. The man seizes both of his lover’s thighs and folds them towards her stomach. This new position offers the man a splendid view over his partner’s sex, which he can easily stimulate before penetration.
The man holds his partner’s legs firmly and chooses the rhythm and deepness of his thrusts. He controls the penetration until his woman sets about accompanying his movement, which causes the excitement to mount, all the more so if the lovers are perfectly in sync.
The oyster position makes reaching orgasm remarkably easy for both partners, as it leaves their hands free to touch and explore each other’s bodies at will. The man can lean over to kiss his lover’s fully displayed body, face and mouth, like an oyster’s open shell.
This position is a must-do and offers a number of advantages. The woman takes up a delightfully indecent and submissive posture, though she may at some point prefer to participate more actively in the lovemaking. The scope for movement and the many possible variations are among the chief merits of this Kama Sutra position, which also makes penetration easy and involves strong vaginal pressure and tightness around the penis, thereby further increasing pleasure. Another noteworthy advantage is the comfort of not having to pull off acrobatic feats.
The only drawback: if the man pushes too hard, his lover may feel a little vaginal pain. You and your partner don’t need vigorous thrusts to reach climax, which is the core quality of this variation on the missionary position and its signature mix of effortlessness and deep pleasure. The oyster position will no doubt bring both lovers an entirely new kind of orgasm.
Faris Sanhaji
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